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Follow the guidance of the unconscious mind in your dreams. You’ll become a balanced human being, and help your children eliminate their wild tendencies while their human conscience is still very strong. This way, they will easily win the battle against their wild side. Your children will acquire sound mental health that lasts forever,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and find authentic happiness in life.
Study my dynamic method of instant dream translation, derived from the complicated method of dream interpretation discovered by Carl Jung. I managed to simplify the dream language after very arduous research and many cures for two decades.
I’ve cured many people who suffered from terrible mental illnesses through dream interpretation. After seeing how terrible mental illnesses are,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I concentrated my attention on craziness prevention. I saw that I had to first of all help everyone find happiness in life before they get trapped in horrible situations, and they become mentally ill.
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You will be able to help your children stop being influenced by their negative wild side. Your children will have the chance to completely eliminate their evil anti-conscience before becoming victims of depression or neurosis. After these initial mental illnesses, there are many worse ones. Depression and neurosis are only the beginning of chaotic conditions.
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Only God can cure horrible mental illnesses. Human doctors are not able to really cure any mental illness,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]; even though sometimes they help their patients somehow cope with their psychological problems.
I claim that I can cure all mental illnesses because I obey the unconscious guidance in dreams. Only the wise unconscious mind knows how to eliminate absurdity because the unconscious mind is God’s mind. The extraordinary unconscious wisdom proves God’s existence.
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If you are a parent, you must be the first one to seriously study the dream language. This is the only way you will be able to help your children prevent all mental illnesses before becoming teenagers and adults,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], when they will tend to be controlled by their anti-conscience most of the time.
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We indispensably need the vision given to us by the divine unconscious mind that produces our dreams in order to save us from craziness and terror. We are under-developed primates. This is why we are destroying our planet with our wars and crimes. We need psychotherapy.
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First, I want to reference "The You" and what it is specifically and why is it so important. First "The You" is not the physical aspects such as the color of your hair, shape of your nose or body size but the unique spiritual energy we refer to it as your spirit, your soul or essence.
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People try to make their bodies beautiful so that others will love them, admire them, reward them, and accept them. It would be better to learn simply to love your body and so to become free and loveable in it. However, it’s often easier to blame your equipment and try to make it conform to someone else’s ideal than to learn about it, to listen to it, and to honor it for yourself.
Your body is a remarkable gift from the Creator, a vehicle through which the spiritual can experience the material; that is what a body is for. As spirit in physical form, you can celebrate and explore the sensory joys of this gift. Come to your senses—all of them. Absorb right here, right now what you see, hear,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], smell, taste, and touch. Direct sensory stimulation is nourishment for your body, sensual nutrition, another kind of food without which it cannot thrive and be free. The freedom of the senses is the freedom to experience pleasure and feel desire, to know you are truly alive.
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From a commercial perspective no body is ever quite beautiful enough. You are bulldozed into seeing your physical self as an ongoing renovation project. From skin tone to hair color, from breast and penis size to length of leg and girth of waist, from laugh-lines to crow’s feet, there’s always room for improvement. Under continued social pressure you might come to see your body through tainted eyes, developing an emotionally and physically damaging dissatisfaction with your natural form. You might give yourself and others self-sabotaging messages that continue to erode your Body Freedom.
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Desire for the “perfect” body might lead you into life-threatening eating disorders as it has about seven million women and one million men in the United States. Or it might entice you into the cosmetic surgeon’s office for procedures ranging from botox injections to chemical peels, from liposuction to breast augmentation, from hair transplants to facelifts. Cosmetic procedures are multiplying by leaps and bounds. In 2004 alone, American cosmetic surgeons performed more than 11.9 million procedures, up 44 percent from 2003 and a whopping 465 percent increase from 1997. Perhaps you might even be tempted to join the ranks of the thousands in both the United States and Britain who apply to be a contestant on reality shows such as “The Extreme Makeover” or “The Swan.” These very popular television series (almost 11 million people watched the 2004 season finale of “The Swan”) feature the ultimate in body redesign, employing teams of specialists—plastic surgeons, eye surgeons, cosmetic dentists,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], hair and makeup artists, stylists, and personal trainers—to radically alter the participants’ appearance. The premise, as outlined on ABC’s website, is to give participants “a truly Cinderella-like experience by changing your looks completely in an effort to transform you life and destiny,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and to make your dreams come true.”
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Sadly, you might not perceive your body as a biological marvel,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a sensory gateway, the temple of your soul. Like many,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you might have forgotten your Body Freedom, been indoctrinated to view your body as ugly and sinful,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a prison that will never be beautiful enough or strong enough, will never measure up no matter what you do,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that constantly betrays you with its shameful desires and ultimately keeps you separate and lonely. All bodies are naturally beautiful because they are the earthly home of your eternal soul, but this is not likely the message you most often hear. Your body perception is under attack on multiple fronts. For instance, many religious teachings perpetuate negative body images, either decrying the body as unclean and shameful or dismissing it as a distraction from higher purposes. If you want spiritual purity, you are exhorted to ignore your body’s wants and wishes.
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First, I want to reference "The You" and what it is specifically and why is it so important. First "The You" is not the physical aspects such as the color of your hair, shape of your nose or body size but the unique spiritual energy we refer to it as your spirit, your soul or essence.
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In Tantra,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the orgasmic response to making love is the epitome of your focused concentration on pleasure. The Tantric orgasm is a combination of the physical orgasm that we commonly think of and a more intense "heart orgasm". Tantra encourages us to live from the heart 24/7 - every minute of life. When we are centered in our hearts, we are in a constant state of blissful union with every bit of energy - both mental and physical - on the planet. The Tantric way is one where we are meshed with everything and everyone around us. To live in this state of mind is truly ecstatic - truly beautiful.
Sexologists (yes, there are such people) have defined several types of orgasms. There are clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms for women. There are glans orgasms for men. Tantra introduces us to a few other types of orgasms as well. There are energy orgasms and heart orgasms. In Tantra, individuals learn to prolong and blend all types of differing orgasms and create what is called a total body orgasm. Wow! That's sounds fun, huh?
That is the essence of the Tantric orgasm. That is why it is so sought after. Besides, what else there in life that is both immeasurably rewarding while simultaneously so entertaining to practice and develop? Tantric sexuality and the way of Tantra in general can make your life into one never-ending total body orgasm. Now that is quite a way to go!
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Further,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], when an individual becomes capable of this degree of body/spirit control and mastery, they experience unparalleled personal growth on a variety of levels besides the sexual one. It is the breath that is the focus of all meditative practices in essence. It is no different with Tantra. Our breath is our most profound connection to life. When you learn to be unfailingly conscious of your breath and your heart's utmost desires, you become more than you dreamed that you could. You touch the source of all life.
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The most common mistake parents make with flower girl dresses is that they get a bit carried away. Yes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is a special day, but putting a young girl in a dress designed for grownups is a recipe for disaster. In short,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], most little girls have no experience walking in heavy, floor length dresses. This may lead to an embarrassing episode, i.e., the flower girl may trip. Sure, the crowd will understand, but the child may be upset. We recommend a tea-length dress.
Choosing a Flower Girl
The flowers are a bit harder to explain. Historians speculate that Victoria was one of the few queens to marry for love, rather than for political reasons. As a result, the idea of romantic love became popular during her reign. In fact, men first started sending flowers to women they fancied in the Victorian era. Therefore, we can safely assume that the petals the flower girls scatters before the bride are a symbol of romantic love.
Follow these practical tips when picking out the flower girl dress for your wedding and your smallest attendant will be happy and simply adorable as she precedes you down the aisle,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
However, they did not actually scatter flowers. In early Greek and Roman times,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], flower girls would sprinkle grains and herbs before the bride, since they were symbols of fertility. Also used as a symbol of fertility, flower girls in medieval Europe carried sheaves of wheat. What about the flower girls of today?
Most historians give credit to Queen Victoria for starting the popular western tradition of the white wedding. Before that time, royal brides rarely wore white. But when the most powerful woman in the world married Prince Albert in 1840, woman of status followed her lead. The white wedding gown would come to symbolize innocence and chastity. For these very same reasons,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the flower girl is the only other female at the ceremony who is allowed, even encouraged to wear white.
Every culture has its own set of wedding customs and traditions. Though fashions change, many of them are still practiced today. One of the oldest bridal customs is the role of the flower girl. Long before there was a wedding party, young girls walked before the bride to symbolize her transition to womanhood. They were often her only attendants.
Tradition dictates that the flower girl must walk before the bride, so she can scatter the flower petals along the aisle. As we said, the flower girl is the only female who is allowed to wear white, since her dress is often a much smaller version of the bridal gown. It is no wonder flower girls often steal the show.
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If the flower girl chooses to stand with the bridesmaids, she will need a pair of comfortable shoes. Ceremonies can last for over an hour, and little girls that are not used to walking or standing in dress shoes may not be able to keep their composure. We recommend white sandals or slip-on pumps. Flower girls are also encouraged to wear tiaras, colorful sashes, and even some jewelry.
The flower girl is invariably the most adorable and tiniest member of the bridal party. But her job isn’t nearly as easy as it looks. Just like the bridesmaids,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], she must get fitted for a dress, attend rehearsals, perform on the big day and pose for pictures. Traditionally, the flower girl is a relative of the bride or groom, often a young cousin or a niece between the ages of four and eight. Because they play an important role in the ceremony,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is often a good idea to choose a girl that is closer to eight than she is to four. It is also perfectly permissible to choose more than one flower girl. Some ceremonies have as many as four!
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Modern brides often change out of their bridal gowns into reception gowns for a very good reason—wedding dresses are uncomfortable. Now, if a grown woman can’t wait to get out of her dress, imagine how a little girl feels. The parents of the flower girl should make certain the material breathes well and that it won’t irritate her skin. If she complains about her dress at any time before the wedding, parents should bring along a lighter,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], more comfortable dress for her to change into before the reception.
The single most important consideration when choosing a dress is comfort. Modern girls between the ages of four and eight are not accustomed to wearing formal dresses for long periods of time. On the wedding day, she will have to look cute and comfortable in her dress for at least two hours (the ceremony). If she is an older girl, she will be expected to stand with the bridesmaids while the vows are read.
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The statistics for mental health problems in the UK are alarming. 300 people out of 1,000 will experience mental health problems this year in Britain, of which mixed anxiety & depression is the most common[1]. That’s 1 in every 3 adults and 1 in 10 children [2]. Anti-depressants are taken regularly by around two million Britons and have been linked to a host of side-effects, including suicide.
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First, I want to reference "The You" and what it is specifically and why is it so important. First "The You" is not the physical aspects such as the color of your hair, shape of your nose or body size but the unique spiritual energy we refer to it as your spirit, your soul or essence.
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The other person was completely flabbergasted! They had no idea that they had said or done anything to hurt my feelings. We were able to resolve the problem immediately and kept our friendship.
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Aromas delivered directly to the smell receptors in our brain have a powerful effect on our behavior. Since birth,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], our smell receptors have been busy cataloguing every smell that passed through our nostrils. As new-born infants snuggled up against our mothers’ breast, the smell of her skin gave us a deep sense of comfort and safety. That first smell, lodged deep within our memory, still has the power to trigger intense feelings.
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Smell has a powerful effect on behavior. Certain smells can brighten our moods and lift our spirits, like the smell of a good cup of coffee and warm cinnamon buns straight from the oven.
An exotic perfume or the smell of your lover’s skin can lead to intimacy and romance while other scents bring a sense of calm and make us feel at home,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
The environment of our childhood,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with its varied smells, fragrances and odors, built the platform of scent memories which determines how we respond to the hints of those scents today. The smell of a musty basement, Thanksgiving dinner at grammas or the gym locker room after a basketball game are all powerful triggers that transport us back into our world of memories.
Unlike the other senses, our sense of smell is always on duty. Each day, without any thought, we breathe in over 23,040 times and inhale over 238 cubic feet of air. Each breath floods our smell receptors with information about the environment we live in. Smells of pleasure. Awareness. Danger. Sexual attraction. We are capable of recognizing approximately 10,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],000 different odors,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with each odor having the power to influence our moods and behavior. However, most people would be hard pressed to identify more than a couple of dozen. Such is the mystery of this enigmatic sense.
If you replied, “It’s our sense of smell,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],” then you’re smarter than most. We live in a culture that overwhelms us with stimulation delivered through sight and sound. Even taste and touch are highly valued and utilized to expand our experience of pleasure and sensuality. But our sense of smell has been relegated to the bottom of the sensory pile. It’s an unfortunate place to be for a sense that’s primarily responsible for our quality of life.
Aromas have long been used to influence behavior. Legend has it that Cleopatra perfumed the sails of her ship sent to meet Anthony so the wind would carry a hint of her desire. For centuries,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], doctors would diagnose various diseases by smell alone and we all know that our shopping experience is influenced by the smells funneled through the air conditioning systems. Smells are being introduced everywhere – in our household products, our homes, our cars and office environments.
If smells are such powerful influencers of moods and behavior doesn’t it make sense that changing the smell can also change the behavior? Research is pointing to that probability. So while the sense of smell is the least known of our senses, it has recently emerged as a new medical frontier. As research identifies how odor is identified and transmitted, we will be able to use a variety of scents to obtain the maximum benefits we desire. It is the scents-ible approach to creating health and well being.
The brain processes information delivered through our other senses by cognitive identification first, which in turn triggers an emotional response. But our sense of smell is unique. It does the opposite. Our smell receptors are directly connected to the limbic system which controls emotional behavior and memory. Incoming odors first trigger an emotional response which is then followed by cognitive recognition. That’s why,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], for example, you’ll respond to the relaxing effects of lavender long before you can identify the specific aroma.
Some smells we find repulsive and alert us to danger,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Just think of your reaction to the stink of a dead skunk on the side of the road or the smell of burning toast. Such strong smells usually trigger an instant reaction and alert us to take corrective action.
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It can be particularly difficult for a shy person to think of what to say when they have to start a conversation with someone they don’t know. No matter what they think of to say,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they instantly tell themselves, “No,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that would be stupid. This person is going to laugh at me for talking about that.” This makes it even harder for a shy person to start a conversation.
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There are actually conversational techniques that help keep a conversation going,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], instead of letting the conversation grind to a halt. For example,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], when you ask the other person open-ended questions, you show you are interested in them,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and you give them an opportunity to voice their opinion or tell about their experiences.
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One thing that many shy people don’t realize is that they don’t have to start off each conversation perfectly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. There is no magic opening line that they need to learn. The important thing about conversations is to simply get them started. Then you need to keep the conversation going,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
The good news is that starting a conversation when you’re shy is a skill that can be learned. Once you learn the techniques that keep a conversation going, you will feel much more confident and at ease in every social situation.
When you learn to genuinely listen to the other person,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will be less focused on yourself. You will find out what really makes them tick, and this can help you to develop a friendship with them.
It is possible to change from being a shy person to becoming a person who feels at ease in any social situation. It will take commitment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and a lot of practice. It will also require courage, because in the beginning, there are many fears that need to be confronted and overcome.
Starting a conversation can be agonizing if you are a shy person. Many people who suffer from shyness have a hard time knowing what to talk about when they encounter someone they don’t know very well. These might be people that they work with,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], neighbors, and people they would like to be friends with. When people are shy, they are constantly worried about being judged by others. They get so nervous about being harshly judged by others that they judge themselves harshly first.
The problem is that shy people can find it so difficult to make conversations with other people that they also find it hard to make friends. Remember that friendships are built up by sharing many conversations and many events over the years with another person. If a shy person is too intimidated to start conversations,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they will end up very lonely because they are not doing the activity upon which friendships depend.
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Their marriage could be at risk and seeing you get divorced might scare them. People are afraid to face a harsh reality and would rather ignore it all,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as they say,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], ignorance is bliss. So seeing you get divorced is just a glaring reminder of their own problems and it makes them think about getting divorced.
So while the betrayal will hurt and just compound the ordeal of the divorce, it is not some impassable wall that will keep you miserable for the rest of time. Ensuring you do not let yourself remain down is the best thing you can do. Pick yourself back up and move on with your life.
Living well is the best revenge, so to get them back you want to move on with your life and find your own happiness. While it will be difficult and require determination,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you can go out there and make new friends. There is no reason for you to remain alone forever.
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But by thinking of getting divorced they also think of what happens after a divorce,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and that scares them. They are afraid of being alone and without money or even a house. So instead of facing this reality they instead get rid of what is reminding them of this scary possibility, and that would be you.
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There is also the stigma associated with getting divorced. While it is not as strong as it use to be,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], getting divorced is still looked down upon by a lot of people. This can be another reason why your friends suddenly take flight,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they might feel you should have stuck it out and made it work somehow.
For whatever reason when you get divorced your friends might start avoiding you and cut off ties all together,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. After the divorce and no friends is exceptionally painful and just makes an already terrible situation even worse. There can be a variety of reasons for why your friends suddenly disappear once you get divorced,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
After the divorce and no friends is a painful and traumatic experience but it is not the end,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. It is a chance to branch out and experience new things and meet new people. As long as you do not let it become a permanent problem you will be fine,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Regardless of the reason, after the divorce and no friends is a very painful thing to deal with and can leave you bitter and angry. It can make you lose faith in the whole idea of having friends and make you reclusive and withdrawn. While it is perfectly acceptable to take your time to heal up after a divorce, you just have to remember to not stay that way forever.
We all know a divorce is a very painful and frustrating process with a lot of pitfalls to overcome. You will find yourself losing quite a bit in your divorce as your spouse seems to take it all, especially in a nasty divorce. They take your money,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], your house, they even end up taking the kids leaving you with next to nothing. But the worst loss of all is when you lose your friends.
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People change, people grow apart, there is no doubt about that. We can outgrow people. We can out grow relationships. There is no one to blame, we simply need to make the decision to move on and do it in a loving manner. Every single person is unique,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we all change and grow at different times in our lives. People come into our lives to help us grow, to help us learn, and then there is a time for them to leave our lives. People can also change and stay within a relationship if it can sustain the change. This takes a real trust between two people, it takes healthy people to be able to allow one to go and be who they really are, and not want them to stay who you think they are for your sake. The closer a person gets to living their dreams, their passions,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the more love they exude to those around them. Why would anyone want to block that? It is important to allow each person to grow and have their space in life in order for a relationship to really grow and evolve.
We have relationships for reasons, always follow your heart,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the answers within there are never wrong. If you are in a relationship that you need to get out of, do it in a loving manner, do it without casting blame. If you are in a relationship that you would like to change, keep in mind you can not change other people, you can only change you. In changing you it will change situations, but that does not always guarantee the relationship will change, make the changes for you without expectations,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will benefit. If you are in a relationship that you are not sure what to do, follow your heart, do some inner healing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and ask your guardian angels for guidance, love and support. We all know what we need and want in life, when we stop relying on others to deliver that to us we are far better off. We also know when we are blocking or holding someone back from what they really want in life, let them go, let them grow, and see the beauty that comes back, we are only holding them back from a place of fear, not love.
The people we choose to have relationships with are those that hold a mirror up for us to look in, for us to learn from. If we choose to look for blame rather than look in the mirror we create blocks not only for ourselves but also in our relationships. If there is a problem within our relationship, there is a problem within the relationship with ourselves. This is not to say that every relationship can work, in fact quite the opposite, sometimes the mirror is showing you that you deserve so much more, or that you have outgrown this relationship. That is not to blame the other person, simply to show you it is time for you to move on in life.
Its seems to be a week of people talking about relationships.........and more about ending relationships than starting them. It is difficult when one is in this position in life. This is my spin on a few situations that have come up for discussion, but first a tip, the only relationship you really need to work on is the one with you. Everything else will fall into place.
There are people that once in a relationship they loose themselves, giving themselves to the partner. A partnership is two people not one, a healthy relationship is two healthy partners,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], not one. Once one person is lost, the resentments and anger start to build because of the disappointments they feel for not having done what they wanted in life. The finger starts to get pointed at their partner, because they obviously could not read their mind, or read their signs of what they wanted. No wonder the relationship is on the rocks. It is so important to know who you are going into the relationship, and feeling comfortable with that. In a healthy relationship you feel safe and supported in being who you truly are. Never hand your power to someone else,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it will only end in heart ache.
Holding on to resentments and hurts from the past is the worst thing for a relationship. If you hold on to something that happened yesterday you are blocking the good that can come in today. We start to build filters in our minds that every situation, every comment flows through. Why would we want to add yesterdays hurts to today’s possibilities? Forgiveness is a huge part of a healthy relationship. Forgiveness of ourselves, forgiveness of our partner. If we can not achieve this the baggage we carry begins to get very heavy, having a huge affect on every relationship in our lives. In letting go of the past, it does not mean you become a door mat for anyone, it means you are allowing yourself to live in today,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in each moment. If the hurt continues to happen then you have a decision to make, just be sure you are looking at today, not an accumulation of yesterdays.
Looking after yourself does not make you selfish, it actually makes you more available to others, because you have made yourself available to you. Nurturing you does not have to take lots of time, in fact you can create time to do this. How about all of those red lights that annoy you, take that time to affirm positive things about yourself, or to breath deeply quieting your mind. It really is simple, we just complicate life.
When we can spend time each day honoring the relationship we have with ourselves, we are far better off in any other relationship. How does one honor their relationship with themselves? Here are a few suggestions:
1. Be aware of how you feel, let go of anything that is dragging you down.
2. Be willing to speak your mind.
3. Nurture yourself,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], be will to give yourself what you need in a day, rest, relax, inspiration,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], motivation, rewards, get out and play like a kid.
4. Exercise, what ever works for you. Get outside as often as possible.
5. Eat a nutritionally balanced diet with fresh fruits and vegetables.
6. Drink plenty of water,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
7. Meditate, or take quiet time out for you.
8. Have positive thoughts about yourself, reaffirm them often.
9. Know your dreams and keep them alive.
10. Set healthy boundaries for yourself and others, and stick to them.
I have had a few discussions with couples that have been together for many, many years, and now they come to the realization that there really isn’t a relationship. They were busy for years raising the children and looking after careers. Now that the children have grown and the career is in it’s final stages, they realize they stopped building on the relationships several years ago. It feels as though they are living with a stranger in some ways. When it comes to a marriage and children, it is important to look after your relationship with yourself first, your relationships with your spouse second, and the children will be looked after. We often times flip all those upside down resulting in a mess at the end of the day.
I also see people leaving relationships and jumping right into the next one that comes along. This is an unhealthy situation, we have been warned of this all our adult lives, we have seen it in friends and relatives, but some continue to do it. Perhaps they continue to do it to show us why we shouldn’t do it, after all everyone has a role to play here. When a relationship ends there is a grieving process one must go through, this is a time to heal hurts,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to release the past, to learn about who you really are. When we don’t take that time, we end up dragging the same baggage right into the next relationship and sometime down the road wondering why we are unhappy. The more we stuff things down inside thinking that we can ignore them, the more they build up and bubble up when we least expect it. This pattern in life is not only hurtful to you it is hurtful to others. Remember to give yourself the proper amount of time to grieve, to absorb the lessons you learned, and to let go of the baggage before getting into another relationship.
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On a beautiful summer day a couple of years ago, a woman came to me with a simple problem. She wanted to find her true love but she did not want to change anything in her otherwise successful life. She did not belong to any social groups or health clubs,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and her only friends lived many miles away in other cities.
There is magic in this universe,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. They just needed to know where to look,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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Nerds Need Love Too
Happy ending. The last woman called me the very next day with a youthful joy in her voice. “Sonny,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],” she said,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “I met someone on my way home from your office yesterday. Tonight we’re going out for dinner. I’m a little nervous,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but you were right. There is magic in this universe. And thanks for understand. Nerds need love too.”
Normally, to shake people out of a rut, you simply get them to try doing something new. But this time we were talking about love. Not just any love mind you, but true love,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the kind of love that fairy tales are made from.
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Strangely, as fate would have it, I was teaching a workshop where two college girls approached me with a similar question. They spent most of their time in the library studying. Because of the pressures of school,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they just did not have time to dedicate to the pursuit of what they considered a frivolous fancy.
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Sure it would have been easy to give these love lost women a rousing pep talk about changing their lifestyles or social networking and send them on their way. But,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], except for one missing piece,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they were shining examples of people living their dream lives.
I guess love was in the air, or perhaps good things come in threes because a couple of days later, yet another woman asked me the same question. This time my motivational speech was prepared. I explained that we are all on different paths in life. Where one person finds love is not necessarily the same for everyone.
Love is everywhere. You never know where or when Cupid’s arrow is going the strike. Simply, they all had to open themselves to the possibility of love in their otherwise enchanted lives.
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Now imagine that this exact scenario repeats itself several times a day,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Many people with General Anxiety Disorder may also have other disorders that they are trying to deal with as well, such as: Depression; Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD); Agoraphobia; or other types of Phobias.
GAD Anxiety is a disorder in which a person feels an intense, irrational,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], unprovoked, paralyzing fear...coupled with an impending sense of doom or dread.
The sad part is, most people suffering from GAD Anxiety (and some of the other disorders that sometimes go hand-in-hand as mentioned above) feel like they are the only one in the world having these internal struggles. Some even fear they are going crazy. What most don't realize is the condition is fairly common and widespread.
Imagine that you are out enjoying a leisurely hike in the forest. You come around the bend in the trail and before stands a 10 foot angry black bear. Everything in you wants to run...but you are frozen solid on the spot. You have a million thoughts running through your mind of what is going to happen to you, but you can't move a muscle. There is nothing you can do to help yourself escape.
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In fact in many ways GAD Anxiety is worse. People who suffer from it have what are known as "anxiety attacks" or "panic attacks". Anxiety attacks usually come out of nowhere, without any apparent reason and without any warning.
From the descriptions and illustrations of GAD Anxiety given above, you would think it would be easy to spot someone who had it, but that is not true. People suffering with this disorder are (in most instances) able to appear on the "outside" like everything is perfectly fine,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], while on the "inside" they feel like they are are going to explode.
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The good news is that large numbers of people who've suffered with GAD Anxiety,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], once they reached out for help,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], have found methods to reduce or completely remove GAD Anxiety attacks from their lives.
You now have a sense of what it feels like for someone who has a General Anxiety Disorder (GAD Anxiety). The only difference is, there is no big black bear coming towards you wanting to tear you into shreds.
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We're in a time of great transition. That means great turmoil, but also great possibility. All of the balls are up in the air, and you still have a say in where they will land.
Live from the inside out.
NOTE TO SELF: STOP TRYING SO HARD!
Who I am is the bright spark of the child I was at my happiest, at my best. Bright, enthusiastic, fascinated, multitalented, with a deep love of learning, of understanding, and of being good (in the very best sense of the word).
So, let go. Instead of clamping on to something that feels solid and holding on for dear life, open your hands and your heart and your mind,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and expand your notion of what is possible. How do you want it to be? Open up instead of shutting down. Expand yourself to include everything, instead of condensing and hardening around one thing or another, around one illusory anchor or another.
This seems to be the single most important thing for me to get to the bottom of now. Nothing else matters.
Better instead to just be who you are; no more, and no less.
Stop trying so hard to be yourself,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. It shouldn't be difficult or take any effort to be who you are.
Life, send me that. All of it. With a beautiful big, red satin bow.
And I want to be a bridge between the two worlds: human and everything else,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. A bridge that hosts traffic in both directions. I want to explain the natural world to humans who don't understand,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]; and I want to explain humans to animals who don't understand us.
NOTE TO SELF: FROM THE INSIDE, OUT
How absurd that we all seem to be trying so hard to be the person someone else wants us to be - or to be more precise, to be the person we THINK the other person wants us to be. That's a never-ending and can't-win game that robs us all of our individual splendor.
The tighter you hold on, the rougher the ride.
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Choose what it is that you want to create,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and head steadfastly in that direction. Let that be your anchor, your safe harbour. This is the time for deciding how you want the future to be.
Yes, I said ENTITLEMENT. Those who believe themselves entitled to wealth generally end up becoming wealthy. That's because they make decisions and act from that sense of entitlement to wealth which makes their becoming wealthy more of a probability.
By Dr. Christine King
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Oh, good god! That's gotta change - and fast! Rent's due and I don't have it - again. This is getting ridiculous!
But now it's not working as well. In fact, it's not working at all. I'm on the very brink of financial disaster and such deep personal unhappiness that I can hardly breathe and lately have often thought of suicide. My persona has become like a full-body cast, restricting and even constricting my real self, the person who stands behind the very real-seeming, very tangible, firmly established flesh-and-blood form of my persona.
I think it began in infancy, and was focused on meeting my needs. I was a tiny baby, born to an overworked mother with limited emotional availability and two other kids. Not to mention only a modest household income. Enough, but barely. I had to come up with something that would get my needs met - and fast.
I used to think that money is a symbol: a tangible symbol of energy, and of the flow of energy between individuals and groups. As such,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], getting it to flow to me was simply a matter of aligning my energy with its flow. Think "money in" and money would flow in.
Does that mean I think I'm less than nothing?
Money is a product. But it is not the product of hard work. The most hard-working people in our society include those who are the poorest, those working for minimum wage. And it is not the product of risk. Those who risk the most sometimes win the most, but they can also lose the most. Money also is not the product of money. Children from wealthy families can blow their entire inheritance in no time.
World, you are on notice: I will now live from the inside out.
We've gone through these times before, and we'll go through them again. But this one is a biggie. A real turning point for humankind. Do we devolve into chaos and self-destruction, or do we evolve into a global culture marked by peaceful coexistence and cooperative action? Or do we each follow one or the other of those paths, thereby dividing into two distinct paths, two separate outcomes?
NOTE TO SELF: THE TIGHTER YOU HOLD ON, THE ROUGHER THE RIDE
umm... yeah, evidently so.
So,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], what do I feel entitled to? "Not much!" if my financial net worth is anything to go by! I have less than nothing.
NOTE TO SELF: MONEY IS A PRODUCT
I'm entitled to work that I love; my own business, not scraps from someone else's kitchen; and clients, customers, and readers who love and appreciate what I do.
And remember that times of great turmoil are also times of great fear. Yes, great opportunity for change, but also great anxiety in the process. Be gentle with yourself - and with your fellow humans. These are scary times. But it'll all turn out just right.
[More Notes to Self, written in my personal blog a year ago. Funny that they're still so current...]
So, here's what I believe I'm entitled to. I'm going to put it down here, in black and white, and send it out into cyberspace so that I can't reel it back in...
I wondered how far back my persona goes. When did it begin? And why? What is it there for?
What nonsense!
I'm entitled to an income that allows me to live well; to free myself of debt (money I'm grateful to have received but that now is a millstone around my neck), to have a home of my own, and to have the freedom and flexibility to continue to explore and write about it.
In short,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I am that bright spark I was as a child. No apologies. No vacillating. No more covering it up.
Who I am is sort of like a human-size fairy. Complete with invisible wings. And now grown in to a queenly presence. I want to live full-time in that magical realm of the natural world,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with its rhythms and its possibilities. I want to be a fully integrated human, fully integrated into the rest of the world, not just the false front of the human-constructed world of personae. I want to see behind the masks, my own and everyone else's, and operate from there.
Who are you trying to please?
One thing is certain: you can no longer stand still; things can no longer stay the same. However much you may long for stability or for the good old days (which weren't all that good, if you'll remember back with absolute honesty),[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you are yearning for something that is gone - at least for the present. And the tighter you hold on, to the past or to some image of how you want things to be right now, the bumpier the ride will be.
Money is the product of entitlement.
So,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], who is that? Who am I really? And how can I be that?
If someone doesn't care for the who that I am, then the fault lies in them and not in me,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if I'm being exactly who I am. See through their confused and convoluted game. They haven't yet figured out who they are.
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Ever hear of Oxytocin? No, not the painkiller, oxycontin, but the hormone that is released in childbirth and assists in the bonding experience between mother and child.
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